Friday, July 24, 2009

yay shower tomorrow..................

So my mom and gma are hosts for my shower. my mom is including me in everything. she calls me up to see if i want to go with her to order the food, to buy decorations, to meet with the guy to get the keys to the place she rented.. etc. So she tells me my g-ma gave her $600 to spend on the shower, and whatever is left over would go to LO. well i asked my mom today out of curiosity how much she had left, and she said $10. wtf. how did she spend that much money on 35 guests??? I'm afraid she spent the money on herself.. which she tends to do with other peoples money.

I have issues with my mom already. when my father passed away 7 years ago she was expected some money to come out of the settlement. they were divorced 2 years before he died..so i dont know why she thought she was going to get any money. but anyway, now she demands that my sister and i give her 40k out of our money so she can put a down payment on a house.. well ive given her 10k so far, and she has NO MONEY LEFT. and now she expects me to pay her more, even though we have a baby coming in 2 months!

I so dont want to stress about this. but Itd be nice to have extra cash around for after the shower, to get things we still need (which is a lotttt no one bought anything we needed off our registry.. besides bottles, pump and boppy)


ok im done venting..

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